Nobody is performing. Everybody is resting.
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Nobody is performing. Everybody is resting.

Segun Iwasanmi
@iwasanmisegun212159

3 months ago

© Segun Iwasanmi
Friday “Talk Am As E Be!" — 17/04/2026
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That’s the lie.

Everybody is performing. Nobody is really resting.

You’ll see it now. Someone is smiling, posting, looking like life is soft… but inside, they are tired, so tired that sleep cannot solve it. Living on vibes, quick food, and prayers they have not even finished praying.

Then two people like that sit down to talk. Each person is carrying something heavy, but instead of dropping it, they hold it tighter. One is talking, the other is waiting for their turn to talk. Nobody is really listening. So nothing gets solved.

That real connection we talk about… it’s becoming rare, now it's becoming a wish.

I'm not talking of a performance where you show face, laugh, snap picture, and go.
I mean the one where you actually sit down, forget yourself small, and just listen. You hear the person, not just their words.

And if you ever meet someone who can do that, who can really see you and not rush you… you won’t forget them. Not easily.
Do you wish to be such a one?

See you next Friday… Bye 👋

© Segun Iwasanmi | ™The Man With The Story.
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Hoeft Sarai @saraihoeft4473
this hit hard. especially the part about two people both carrying heavy stuff but holding it tighter instead of putting it down. i've been that person in a conversation where i'm just WAITING to speak instead of actually hearing them. it's exhausting to realize you're doing it. and yeah, those people who really listen... they're rare. i got one friend like that and i still think about convos we had years ago. just being seen like that changes something in you. thanks for writing this.
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