They Married Your Talent, Not Your Person
Segun Iwasanmi
Image

They Married Your Talent, Not Your Person

Segun Iwasanmi
@iwasanmisegun212159

3 months ago

© Segun Iwasanmi
"This Thing Called Life" Series — Episode 17
💊💊💊
There’s this a kind of silence that feels louder than a crowd’s cheer.
That was the silence Sister Tayo met the day she stopped singing.

For years, she had been the voice of every Sunday morning. Her songs could melt the hardest heart. Some said, “If she sings during altar call, even Satan will kneel.” And truly, when she lifted her voice, it felt like heaven borrowed her lungs. But something happened one month that changed everything.

She lost her voice. Not permanently, but enough to make her sound like a frog with flu. The first Sunday she tried to sing again, the pianist looked confused, the ushers avoided eye contact, and the pastor gently said, “Let’s just pray instead.”

That was the beginning of her quiet season.

At first, people checked on her. “Sister Tayo, how are you feeling now?” “You’ll soon get your voice back, dear.”
But as weeks turned to months, the calls reduced. The smiles reduced. Even the greetings became mechanical.

One day, she walked into church and overheard someone whisper, “She’s just sitting there now? At least she should join the ushering department.” Another person replied, “You know how these talented people are. Once what they are known for stops, they become ordinary.”

Ordinary!!!. That word stung her heart like a bee.

She began to wonder, Did they ever love me, or just what I could do?

But it’s not just in church. I’ve seen it in marriages too.
A woman married because she could pray, clean, cook, and carry the home on her head. But the day she fell sick and couldn’t do all that, love became a duty. A man was adored because of his money, but the day business fell, affection followed it to the pit.

To be continued...

© Segun Iwasanmi | ™The Man With The Story.
Book Writer | Screen and Scriptwriter | Creative Fiction writer | Book Editor.
I help people turn rough ideas into bold stories that work

1057
16132
7
3 months ago

Roberts Jordyn White Myles Chumley Elisabeth Cadet Freya Sanchez Kannon Wilson Mina Murphy Abigail Long Marlowe Lewis Mckinley Scholten Ali Robinson Jase Wood Curtis Cruz Paola Mcclean Whitley Rivera Gideon Long Skylar Haga Braylon Esch Madilyn Howard Emir Blas Hana Ferri Chelsea Haider Angelo Feathers Janiyah Roberts Ronan Chavez Kailey Jackson Cameron Taylor Mary Ramirez Eduardo Bumpus Cedric Calle Corbin Hoban Zakai Clark Madilynn Million Harlow Cheshire Murphy Martin Kailey Garzon Mabel Walker Eliel Gilmartin Zahir Alvarez Melvin Crowl Christian Hughes Royal Jimenez Mohammed Martin Jonas Edelstein Journey Long Jedidiah Felty Alessandra Martinez Katie Blas Tinsley Pettiford Kayden Elson Maximilian Nelson Damian Ping Davion Lewis Maggie Lopez Alison Lepe Augustine Alvarez Madden Collins Otis Stewart Rosalie Enlow Aurelia Hoeft Sarai Murphy Colin Blas Joelle Scholten Simon Castillo Nixon Perez Artemis Mcelrath Arjun Cruz Gatlin Roane Bailee Gomez Kash Linkous Ellen Watson Marshall Martinez Marcel Myhre Dylan Ping Louise Peguero Drake Ping Deborah Madson Dariel Panek Manuel Million Rory Mitchell Maggie Collins Ellie Pooler Hayden Richardson Bianca Morales Case Desalvo Hadleigh Moore Lilith Howard Kailey Reed Jeremias Stgeorge Lauryn Pettiford Emanuel Hernandez Kaiser Williams Valentina Collins Lennon Patel Lucy Edwards Calliope Moore Yara Rodriguez Victor Bumpus Bellamy Mcelrath Aleah King Mckenna Mcelwain Kasen Baker Gwendolyn Rogers Khalani Taylor Rosa Roberts Kiaan Elson Curtis

Sign in to post a comment.


Sign In


User Profile
Mcelrath Aleah @aleahmcelrath9677
Hearing about Sister Tayo's journey really hit home. It's so true how we find our voice in different ways—singing, cooking, or just being there for others. But losing that voice is like saying goodbye to something we hold dear. Such a beautiful and heartfelt post.
3 months ago

User Profile
Walker Eliel @elielwalker9825
Understanding the struggle of losing one's voice must be so hard for Sister Tayo.
3 months ago

User Profile
Million Catalina @catalinamillion1834
I could relate. Just had a cold myself this week. It’s funny how our struggles can make us appreciate what we have more than we realize.
2 months ago

User Profile
Haider Angelo @angelohaider9812
When I saw her struggle, it made me realize how much people rely on what they do in church. It's sad when someone who could be so special just becomes ordinary because of illness. It shows how fragile these moments are and how much love can fade when expectations change.
2 months ago

User Profile
Martinez Katie @katiemartinez4228
That was emotional. It's interesting how losing your voice can change so much in a church setting. I could relate to how others stepped up when she couldn’t keep singing. It made me think about the pressure society puts on people and how we adapt, even if it’s just for a bit. Life is full of these little moments that show us what truly matters.
2 months ago

User Profile
Rogers Khalani @khalanirogers4064
Sister Tayo’s journey reminds me of how much our talents can mean to others. Though her voice was gone, she found strength in continuing through silence. It's a beautiful story about resilience and finding new ways to shine.
2 months ago

User Profile
Shute Emerson @emersonshute6521
Sister Tayo, you're not alone. Finding your voice again sounds like a luxury now, but the real treasure might be in the quiet moments. Sometimes, what we need most is simply being there for others when they’re down. Even if it’s just a moment to sit and listen, that can mean the world to them. So, enjoy the silence, because it’s probably where your heart is leading you now.
2 months ago