Uduorji Chidera
Reader of worlds 📖/ Thinker of thoughts 💭/ Writer of words ✍️
Member Since: 1 year ago
HUMAN RELATIONSHIP
Human relationships are difficult and exhausting— this is what I have felt all my life. Loving people who only loved you back when it's convenient, waiting for an apology that never arrives when you want it and when it does, it is accompanied by no change in behaviour; just people breaking your heart again and you letting them because you do not know how to be alone. Being cared by people who obliquely point out how hard it is to care for someone like you, the sound of footsteps walking aw...
Lessons I learned this year
I've learned a lot this year. I learned that things don't always turn out the way you planned, or the way you think they should. I've learned that there are things that go wrong that don't always get fixed or get put back together the way they were before. I've learned that some broken things stay broken, and I've also learned that you can get through bad times and keep looking for better ones, as long as you have people who love you.
Note on HEALING, WELLNESS and SELF-DEVELOPMENT In the journey of healing, we often find solace in the small moments of self-discovery. Just like a gentle stream, our path to wellness begins with a single step. It's in these moments that we unearth the beauty of self-development. Imagine a garden, tended to with care and patience. Our well-being is much the same. As we nurture our physical and mental health, we bloom into the best versions of ourselves. It's a process that requires kindness to...
The truth hurts. We live in a generation that is challenged on how to build healthy relationships. We end up excusing our bad behaviour with lines like “I don’t owe anyone anything”. Truth is: You do owe people something. You owe those you offend or hurt an apology. You owe those who gave you support, gratitude. You owe appreciation to those who have helped you during rough times. And you owe those you so easily disrespected, respect. Golden rules of life – Treat people the way ...
C H I D E R A C Compassion, my finest side H Hardy, can't keep me down I Intense, my zest for living D Discreet, I can keep a secret E Extra, those little things I do R Righteous, I know when I'm right A Able, I'm surely are My name is my DESTINY, heart desires, and personality. I have the ability to persuade others effortlessly. I am expressive, optimistic, outgoing, and inspiring, charming and cheerful. I fascinate others with my creativity, especially in writing. I have the...
