DON'T MIND THE CRITIC, CRITICISM IS UNSOLICITED ADVICE.
UDEME ABBA@udemeabba089100
1 year ago
"If people are kicking you in the behind,at least you are in front of them."~Billy Graham.
Chances are that you have heard many unkind and critical words about your person, work and goals. Do not give up on your dreams because of that. I must admit that it is never easy to deal with critics especially when you have put in your very best. You can, however, learn and improve with criticism. Criticism is unqualified praise. It is unsolicited advice.
More than that, criticism is a sure sign that you are doing something that is probably taking you somewhere. Remember, no one ever throw stones at a non-fruit bearing trees.
Thank goodness you are worth somebody's time and attention. Small, insignificant and unimportant people are never criticized. Only result producers, achievers and influencers are under the watchful eyes of critics.
However, some criticism are worth listening to if they come from knowledgeable and well-informed and experienced persons. Chances are that you can profit from them.
On the other hand, criticism from pessimists, "holier than thou" attitude people, "know it all"should at best be ignored.
In like manner, don't surrender your destiny to failure. A person who is going nowhere or has not got a better results than you is not qualified to criticize you. Don't trade place with such people. Listening to them is like carrying a heavy luggage. It can only weighs you down.
People who give up on their dreams often criticized the efforts of others. Certainly, some some criticisms come from rivals and competitors. Their purpose is to depreciates,demoralize, damage, frustrate, discourage and distract you. Don't mind them, just keep on going in the direction of your dreams.
Of course, there are a few others who truly want you to succeed. Whoever is the critic, remind yourself that if you are not going anywhere in life, nobody will ever mind you. An eagle cannot stop soaring high because of criticism by a chicken. Just keep on keeping on. Make necessary amends where you can, but don't allow nobody to abort your destiny.
A day is coming when they will sing your praises and count it a privilege to be your friend, if you don't give up.
If you are not big enough to stand criticism, you are too small to be promoted.
" A man who want to lead the Orchestra must turn his back on the crowd."~{James Crook}
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