Don't buy love, earn respect. Avoid transactional relationships and focus on building genuine connections.
megwara favour@favourmegwara336255
1 month ago
When it comes to relationships, I've noticed a trend among guys, particularly with ladies. There are two types of guys: those who go all out to please a lady, often with a transactional mindset, and those who do little to nothing and still receive attention. I've seen this trend among young people in relationships, and it's a common human pattern.
My advice to guys is to avoid overdoing it, especially with someone whose relationship is built on a transactional level. Even if it's not immediately apparent, once you recognize the signs, be cautious. You can still be supportive and helpful, but don't expect something in return. If you do, it will likely remain transactional, and you might not even get exclusivity.
The sad part is that some guys think having money will solve their problems, but it often leads to being used. Ladies will come around because of what you have, not who you are. Meanwhile, other guys with less wealth and worth effortlessly build connections with these same ladies.
To avoid heartbreak and paranoia, discipline yourself and your mind when interacting with people who have a transactional approach to relationships. Define your relationships clearly, and don't expect more than what's reciprocated.
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