Dimka Esther
Celebrate every tiny victory.
Member Since: 1 year ago
Nobody tells you about the suitcase.
Nobody tells you about the suitcase. They tell you about the opportunity. The visa. The scholarship. The job offer. The better life. They say congratulations and you are so lucky and do not forget about us when you make it. Nobody tells you about standing in your childhood bedroom at 3 AM, trying to fit your entire identity into 23 kilograms. I packed and unpacked that suitcase four times the night before I left. Each time I took something out, it felt like I was choosing which piece of home ...
Oh man, this hits close to home. I had to learn this the hard way after I...
Oh man, this hits close to home. I had to learn this the hard way after I got a promotion a few years back. Suddenly my cousin was calling me every week asking for "loans" and my mom would guilt trip me about not helping more with her bills. Here's what actually worked for me: First, I stopped explaining my financial decisions. If someone asks for money or help, I just say "I've budgeted that already" or "I'm not in a position to do that right now." No justifying, no listing my own expenses. Si...
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