To the first time mom
Temitope Adebayo@temitopeadebayo734589
9 months ago
Let your determination be louder than your doubts. You've got what it takes. 📢💪
The one who feels the need to change every pamper with a blue line, afraid if you don't, you're a terrible mom, 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘯𝘦𝘹𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘣𝘭𝘶𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘗𝘢𝘮𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴.
The new mom who feels like the world is judging your choices, 𝘣𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘯𝘦𝘹𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺, 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘭𝘭 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘻𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘨𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦.
The new mom who feels pressure to make something healthy at every meal, 𝘣𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘯𝘦𝘹𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘷𝘦𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘬𝘪𝘥𝘴 𝘦𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮.
The new mom who feels like newborns are exhausting, and she can never do it again, 𝘣𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘯𝘦𝘹𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺, 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺’𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰𝘹𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘯𝘦𝘸𝘣𝘰𝘳𝘯 𝘴𝘮𝘦𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘭𝘭 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘴 𝘪𝘵.
The new mom who feels like your baby hates you because you swaddled her, changed her diaper, fed and burped her, and your baby is still crying, 𝘣𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘯𝘦𝘹𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺, 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘭𝘭 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵'𝘴 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦—𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘧𝘶𝘴𝘴𝘺.
The new mom afraid to take her baby outside the house because there are so many germs, 𝘣𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘯𝘦𝘹𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺, 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵𝘣𝘰𝘳𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘴𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘭 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘪𝘤𝘬𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘣𝘢𝘣𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘯𝘰𝘯-𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘱𝘪𝘤𝘬-𝘶𝘱𝘴, 𝘥𝘳𝘰𝘱-𝘰𝘧𝘧𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘶𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘳𝘬𝘦𝘵 𝘳𝘶𝘯𝘴.
So, new mama,
It’s okay if you go for a walk around your neighborhood,
or take your baby to the store.
𝘐𝘵’𝘴 𝘰𝘬𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦.
The baby will be more than okay.
And if you love that baby more than anything,
show up,
and try,
𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘢 𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵 𝘮𝘰𝘮.
