Learn your love language today.
Yves Saint@saintyves825849
1 month ago
LOVE LANGUAGE
Love language is not just language like English or French language. It is a language meant for people in lower and higher relationship. Love language is not a word word. Love language is an action word. Lower relationship in the sense that you are my friend, my relations, my families and areas towards that angle. Higher relationship in the sense that you are my girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband, relationship partner and all that.
When you're in a relationship in someone and you have graduated from the friendship zone to the dating zone. The dating zone in the sense that you people are relationship partner. You people are friends but have graduated from being friends to being boyfriend and girlfriend.
The first thing you should know when you're in a relationship is to know your partner's love language.
TYPES OF LOVE LANGUAGE
There are different love languages. People's love languages different. Different love languages is different people's personality. We all have our differences. The different types of love languages are as follows;
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
Use the right love language to the right partner. Do not use the right love language to the wrong partner or the wrong love language to the right partner. Words of affirmation includes praises, encouragement, complement. Praise your partner! Words of affirmation can be people's love language. People who love words of affirmation are word sensitive. Mind what you say to those people. Speak the right words to them. When someone has done something good, show the person love by rewarding them with gifts or tokens. Some people do not really want gifts from their partners, all they want is the words of affirmation. Go for whatever makes you happy but not at the detriment of your relationship. You should know what love is. Love is expressive. Love is an expression and experience. Know how to express love to your friends, relations, relationship partners and people around you.
ACT OF SERVICE
Someone or people's love language could be act of service. Helping people could be your partner's love language. Your partner love charity works and helping people, support your partner and work towards that line. You can show love to your partner out of service. Example; you can do breakfast in bed for your partner. It must not be the man doing the breakfast in bed for the woman, the woman can also do it for your relatives partner.
RECEIVING A GIFT
Giving or receiving gifts is someone's love language, it does not mean your partner is too materialistic. It is your partner's make-up. It is what he or she understands. Buy a value gift for your partner. You must not wait for your partner's birthday before you buy a gift for partner. They value gifts. It is not being materialistic, it is being one-self. If you understand your partner's love language, communication will flow, conflicts will definitely end. Sometimes when someone buys a gift for their partners, they cry out their heart because you just spoke the love language. People who loves receiving gifts as their love language. People who loves receiving gifts as their love language don't give away the gift. They'll say, “it's a gift from someone or someone special. I can't give it out.”
QUALITY TIME
Many people don't joke with this. Quality time is one of the love language. Spending quality time with someone is really special. This language makes them feel important. Spending quality time with someone is there to created memories, is for you to be attentive to your partner or friend. Partners or friends who spends quality time together, cherish away passing moments and the moment they want to leave, they feel sad because the quality time they had spent is coming to an end for now. Communication is the key in this love language.
PHYSICAL TOUCH
Many people find this love language interesting. Many people love to hold their partners. The physical touches includes; kissing, holding of hands, embracing one another, etc. When the person is not speaking the partners love language, the partner will get annoyed, angry or even they complain. Many people love their partners to cuddle them and love to hold them closely. That is your partner's love language.
Written By Saint Yves.
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