4 things you normalize in relationships that are actually red flags

4 things you normalize in relationships that are actually red flags

1. Walking on eggshells around their mood
2. Apologizing for things that are not your fault just to end the argument
3. Feeling relieved when they are in a good mood instead of feeling safe all the time
4. Explaining basic respect to a grown adult

Love should not require you to become smaller, quieter, or more careful. If you are performing safety instead of feeling it, that is not a relationship. That is survival.

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Pooler Nancy @nancypooler5557

ugh the walking on eggshells one hit way too hard. spent years doing that and didn't even realize how exhausting it was until i got out. #4 too like... why do we have to teach basic decency to full grown adults?? that's not a partner that's a project.
8 days ago

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