Sunday Roseline
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1 year ago
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DON'T TELL ME NOT TO FAIL (1)
The word failure tends to bring terror to many ears. Failure is not the absence of success, but different people understand things differently.
Some see fairs as a disappointment while others see them as part of life.
Now let me ask you, yes I mean you, what is your take on this?
I will tell you mine. Failure means you have to try again. Don't be scared to fail and gone are the days when we used to beat ourselves when we didn't take the lead in class. Failure means you have attempted success,
At times, it is better to fail as a sit-up than to succeed and never learn a new step. Failing is not a sin, but refusing to change your mind is taboo.
I was invited to speak in a youth seminar then I threw these questions. 'Who is a failure?".I was bewildered by the different answers from the young minds. Some said Ma, failure is not making a good name, failure is when you don't succeed.
I wasn't surprised because that's the way their understanding could carry them.
Then I added, who wants to be a failure? Seriously, everywhere was still and no hand was lifted. But after telling them my side of failure, they were amazed. You see, nobody wants or wishes to be a failure or fail in life but failing is inevitable if you don't plan.
WHAT CAUSES FAILURE?
There are factors I discovered within me. I called them the 4 Ds.
1. DOUBT: The feeling of uncertainty kills faster than failure itself. Be sure of what you want before you go for it.
2. DISHONEST: The ability to trust yourself in what you can is another thing, if you lack self morale then you can't step further.
3. DREAM: What you are set to you, is your vision or another person, you can't run with somebody else vision and think of succeeding. Build your dream and work with it.
4. DETERMINATION: The ability firm and fair in what you set to do is what entails if you're ready to dance with failure or success.
TO BE CONTINUED. ©Roseline
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