Doris Chimezi
@dorischimezi
1 year ago

FAILED RELATIONSHIP: 7 WAYS TO PREVENT IT

The rate at which relationships fail these days is alarming. As much as I am not an authority in relationships, I believe I have few tips that can help someone today.

EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS UNIQUE: What works for someone else may not work for you. A couple has a thing in common that brought them together, it may not be the same as yours.

DON'T JOKE WITH TRUST: Trust is the basis or foundation of every relationship. Hardly can any relationship last once trust is broken.

AVOID COMPARISON: Nobody likes to be compared to someone else. Everybody is a work in progress, there is no competition in destiny!

DON'T START WHAT YOU CAN'T FINISH: Don't accept what you know you really don't like out of desperation. Maybe you are the type that detests cleaning after someone but because of desperation you accepted. I tell you, you will argue everyday.

TAKE YOUR PRIVATE LIFE FAR FROM SOCIAL MEDIA: Learn to keep your personal life away from public eyes. Social media is not a place to rant when you are angry. Deleting a post does not delete it from people's brain; such damage control is not effective.

DON'T RUN YOUR HOME LIKE YOU SAW IN THE MOVIES: 90% of movies are fiction, they are not real. Don't go slapping your husband thinking he will still apologise to you like you saw in the movies.😆

DECIDE ABOUT YOUR FINANCIAL LIFE: This is very important too. It should be defined and not vague. If one of you will work and the other stays to keep the home,or both of you will work, decide it FIRST.

If you follow these, your relationship will bounce back. If you are yet to get into a relationship, it will help you succeed when you are ready.
~CDI